22

 Dear Haven, 

Beautiful boy. Loved son. How can it be that you would turn 22 this year? There are so many things I wonder about…who would your favorite teacher have been? Who would be your best friend? Where would you go to college? But I have learned not to dwell on those questions because your story was never meant to include those things. Your purpose was completely fulfilled in the 32 weeks we had you with us, this side of Heaven. We trust God’s Word when it tells us that HE is the one who numbers our days. 

What I don’t have to wonder about is that you had very dark hair, soft, chubby, smoochable cheeks, perfect fingers and toes, and sweet little lips. I don’t have to wonder where you are because I know you’re with Jesus - the safest, best, most joyful place you could be! (Say hi to Trina and Bobby for me.) 

I also don’t have to wonder if you’ll be remembered because your name has been recorded on every continent by family, friends, sweet students, and even kind strangers. 

I don’t wonder about your impact. It has been felt far beyond our little family. Our prayer has always been and will always be that your life and your story encourage others and bring glory to our Lord. 

So, happy birthday, our third-born blessing. We are one year closer to seeing you again. Until then, we will continue to keep your place in our family ever present. 

Today, we will read your birthday cards from your Great Aunt Diane, Lynda, and your Nini - as we have for the past 21 birthdays. We will go to Night to Shine and serve with you in mind, which is such a fitting way to celebrate your birth. 

Love, Mama